By Beth Sullivan
In honor of the holiday, we took the
time to visit several of the cemeteries and family burying grounds
that are within or near our Avalonia Preserves.
Since the first settlers came to our
shores and established homesteads and farms, they created spaces
dedicated to their family’s deceased. Many of these small plots
have become forgotten and over grown. Others became incorporated into
or surrounded by, the land donated to Avalonia for conservation and
preservation. It is an interesting walk through history to examine
some of the stones and their inscriptions-family groups, youngsters,
soldiers and laborers are represented.
In the Perry Natural Area, in the
far corner, is a small plot. Most of the stones are unmarked, merely
designating head and foot. Two others are larger, with writing
legible still.
The grave of Prentice Brown in the Perry Natural Area. |
Most graves are unmarked, just stones placed at head and foot. |
In Hoffman Preserve there is the
Bennett Yard. Also within Hoffman are many stone mounds, thought by
some to be markers of burial sites from even pre-colonial times.
Sometimes stone cairns mark old burial sites. |
Out on Barn Island, on the way to
the Continental Marsh Preserve, is yet another cemetery. This one is
surrounded by more imposing stone walls.
Family groups include graves from all ages. |
There is one
lovely spot, a plot carved out of the Stony Brook Preserve on
Sommers Lane. It is not easy to access as there are no trails. Here
members of the Davis and Beebe Families are buried.
The Davis family was prominent in Stonington. |
It is in the cemetery near the Knox
preserve where some of the most detailed history is found. Wives of
an original founding father, in the Minor family, members of the
Hoxsie, Latham and Wilcox families as well are buried here. Included
here is a stone dedicated to two “Indians” who lived and
presumably worked on the farm here. They were given an impressive
stone and a place with the family.
Native Americans and farm laborers were also included in family burial grounds. |
The Minor family is one of the oldest founding families. |
Veterans are included in these old graveyards
What is notable is the number of
American Flags that dotted the land on this Memorial Day Weekend.
They honor those from several wars and include a number who served in
the Connecticut Volunteers.
We live in an area rich with
history. It is good to see that preserved and to see there is still
honor bestowed on those who served this country, long, long ago.
The grave of John Hoxsie who fought in the Civil War and survived. |
The grave of Lenard Wilcox in the Miner Cemetery by Knox Preserve. |
Photographs by Beth Sullivan and
Rick Newton.